You have the right: to be treated with respect to express your feelings, opinions and wants to set your own priorities to say "no" without feeling guilty to get what you pay for to have opinions different than others to take care of and protect yourself from being threatened physically, mentally or emotionally to create your own happy and healthy life These fundamental human rights represent your boundaries
	Dirty John Coercive Control
	Do not be rude or disrespectful
	No means no
	Be considerate don't be inconsiderate

	Detaching with love, you give up the idea that you can control their behavior, and you stop allowing them to control yours. It's hard. -  It takes practice. -  But for many, detaching works.
	“My advice is not to hit your head against the wall too hard. There isn’t a lot we can do sometimes but stand by, watch closely and be able to jump in when needed.”
	What to Do When Your Aging Parents Won’t Listen
	You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink
	Parents are grown adults, they have the right to make their own decisions, even wrong decisions